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One of the possible results of the test “How do you handle arguments in your relationship?”

The Negotiator

You look for middle ground quickly: each gives a little and the problem is solved. Practical and fair, though sometimes the solution leaves you both half satisfied.

Recommendations

✓For important issues, take time to find what each of you really needs.
✓Not everything has to be split in half: sometimes there's a better option.

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About this test

All couples disagree. What makes the difference isn't how often you argue, but how you do it.

Choose what you would really do in each situation, not what you think you should do.

Five ways to deal with conflict

The Thomas-Kilmann model describes five conflict styles based on two axes: how much you care about your own goals and how much you care about the other person's. Competing prioritizes winning; avoiding steps away; accommodating gives in; compromising splits the difference; collaborating looks for a solution that works for both.

No style is always good or bad. The healthiest couples adapt their style to the situation, and save the effort of collaborating for the things that truly matter.